Jeffery A Jung, my sister's husband

Jeffery A Jung is a 52 year old American from Illinois. I believe that he is the oldest child of Edward and Charlene Jung, two white individuals from German and Polish origin who lack college education and culture and fill the stereotype of ignorant, gullible, simpleton, easy to fool gringos derogatory termed ‘white trash’.

Jeffery married rather late, at 37 to a woman he considers racially inferior, moved by his feelings of insignificance which led him to believe that if he married an inferior woman, she would look up to him, which happened during the early years after they married. To this day they’ve been married for 15 years.

Jeffery and Monica visited her family in June 2003 bearing great expectations in mind.

He wanted to blind her wife’s folks with his racial superiority, being a citizen of the most powerful country on Earth, his academic degrees, his job and his high income. Monica wanted to impress her siblings and mother by implying that she was the best of the four children, which would explain why such a wonderful man decided to marry her.

I am almost certain that Monica didn’t inform her husband that our father was an alcoholic, with everything that fact involves.

Weeks before their visit, a very unlucky incident led to him learning that Oscar, Monica’s twin brother lived unemployed, not working being 39 years old and had been like this during his adult life. That gave Jeffery the perfect excuse to attack him and display a huge disdain towards his brother in law, in spite that all Oscar had done was to work very hard doing handyman work so the house was in good condition to receive him and his wife.

Monica exhibited once more her true nature, which is betrayal. I believe that in the beginning she tried to explain to him that her twin brother had lived violence from his early childhood, but Jeffery convinced her quickly that such condition doesn’t affect a human being in any possible way and him by comparison was a productive hard working man because he committed to it from the beginning, while her brother avoided responsibility from the beginning.

From such event, 13 years and five months have passed and Jeffery has kept his attitude toward his brother in law, easy to understand why.

Jeffery Jung is the kind of man who gets lost in the crowd. He lacks attractiveness with women (that explains why he chose to marry an ugly woman he considers racially inferior), is an anodyne individual, his physique reflects his sedentary lifestyle and in spite of being college educated, he lacks culture.

Charlene and Edward Jung, Jeffery’s parents could have been simple ignorant people, but he was not a violent alcoholic and she was not a codependent woman from a very dysfunctional family, as Jeffery’s family was not neither. There is a high probability that in Jeffery’s family there was sibling rivalry and the usual conflict among children but not a living hell of family violence.

What would have happened to this weak and coward individual had his father treated him as if he were the worst criminal in History from his early childhood and his mother had done little to prevent such, to protect him? This flake would have gone mad or he wouldn’t have survived.

How long is it going to take before Monica and Jeffery can see the truth about themselves and about each other and realize that their relationship is not based in love, but in weakness, personal poverty and the need to fool themselves?

Is going to happen late in life.